OMG! I Can't Believe I've Turned 40

Well, I knew this day would come. I am officially the age my parents were when I was in high school. Or close enough anyway. I remember how out-of-touch I thought they were. Ugh! What an ugly mirror to look into. As I reminisce about the past as I frequently do on this perennial anniversary of my birth, I now have enough years under my belt that I have some perspective. Normally, I hate my birthday. Always have. There are plenty of pictures of a youthful me, sitting in front of a lit birthday cake - frowning. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing formally against birthdays I just don't always like being the center of attention. Too much and I'm like the cat you pet that gets overstimulated and runs away. But this year is different somehow. I am enjoying this day. And why?

Here's an eye-opening, mind-opening question to ask myself: What am I doing with what I've got? Instead of crying over what I don't have, and wishing my life were different, what am I doing with what I've got?

Am I so sure I'm doing everything possible to make my life a success? Am I using my capabilities well? Do I recognize and appreciate all I have to be grateful for?

When I build on this precious foundation of present, tangible good, things will continue to change for the better.

Two things happened this morning that have already made this day perfect no matter what else happens. My daughter woke up early which is a treat so I got to see her before I left. She called out "Daddy" and ran down the hall where I promptly hugged her and kissed her head-to-toe. My wife (who is a better writer than I) wrote in my birthday card:

They climb ladders
They rescue

They march for matters

They help you

They have halos that glow

They save your soul

They ride horses

They drive cars with flashing lights

They protect us day and night

They remove tumors and restore sight to blind

They save lives

They ask educated questions during sessions

They cure the mind

They are firemen, police, angels, doctors

They are heros

Without a ladder, gun or knife

You healed my soul, mind, sight and saved my life

You are my hero

I can see your halo

Yep, maybe 40 isn't all that bad.